When asked what they find attractive in women, every guy has his own set of standards. However, one thing is for sure, it’s more than just the physical look that lure them in. With this in mind, here’s a round-up of qualities that men find attractive in women.
Beauty is more than skin deep. Men—and people, in general—are attracted to positive, pleasant, and cheerful personalities. This positivism is associated not only with physical attraction, but also social interaction. This doesn’t mean you have to flash a smiling face 24/7, but focus on being friendly and warm especially when meeting new people.
- Unique Interests
Perhaps you have an obsession with Harry Potter or you’re into extreme sports—whatever unique interest you have, this sets you apart from the bunch. Men find it sexy when a woman has her own thing and shows passion on her craft.
- A Good Sense of Humor
One of the traits that men find attractive in women is their ability to respond to a good joke, instead of simply laughing at them. It’s ego-stroking for a man when you laugh at his jokes, but it challenges him and draws him in even more when you can respond to his wisecrack. Men want women who can be their conversation partners—not just adoring fans.
- Clear Goals
Goals show self-awareness. Therefore, having clear goals shows that you know your worth today and what you will become tomorrow. This also shows that you are mature enough to define what you really want from life and from yourself.
This is a universal winner, but it’s more than just what you say or do. Confidence is also about what you don’t do. Women who are confident with themselves and their abilities don’t need to show off for the sake of being seen and/or heard. They embrace both of their strengths and weaknesses, and are only concerned with what’s in their power—not what’s outside of it; and for men, that’s sexy!
There are so many other traits men find attractive in women, but these are just five. If you want to look more attractive, there’s no need to buy new make-up or an entirely new wardrobe. Start by knowing yourself more and trying to be the best person you can be.